LET'S CELEBRATE AGE

Everyone has a personal soapbox, something they feel strongly about and will loudly and passionately speak out if anyone will listen.  For over twenty-five years I've been talking, writing, and producing public radio programs on a subject that people don't always want to hear about --- aging.  In fact, the reason I originally became interested in the subject was that my friends turning fifty, fifty-five and sixty were finding a dozen ways to avoid, deny, evade, and abort any discussion of their age. Hey, we loved turning twenty-one, it opened new worlds. Why wouldn't additional years continue to present expanding horizons? More years, more life experience, wider perspective, more knowledge. It looked like a plus to me.
And then, on my birthday, the greeting cards started to arrive containing strong implications that I was heading into a time of life that I should try to avoid at any cost.  One card has a picture of an antique chair, quite beautifully illustrated.  The wish inside was less attractive." Age is what makes furniture worth more and people worth less! Happy Birthday anyway." Two more arrived the next day.  I wasn't much cheered by them either. "I made sure I didn't get you a funny card for your birthday. I know how easily people your age pee their pants" and then this, "At your age my wish for your birthday is that I can find you someone to help you read and comprehend this card." That one pushed me over the edge and led me into finding my soapbox.

It's time to focus on what we gain with age, not what we lose. What if we looked at mid-life and years beyond as a quest, not a crisis? Might our later years be richer if we labeled them "mature" instead of "old"? As we blow out the candles on the birthday cake, how about thinking about the challenge of staying creative, vital, and aware - of looking ahead to a year of being active, energetic and resourceful?  Everyday around 6,000 of us either celebrate, or agitate, over the candles on our mid-century birthday cake. It's trite but true, attitude makes all the difference. On my last birthday I received a card that boosted my confidence that although I realize there will be changes and challenges ahead, I'm ready to embrace the years ahead. "A birthday is not a measure of how old we've become, but a celebration of where we are in the magical circle of life. Happy Birthday." To live is to age.

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